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(Click to expand)(9) THE GURNEY PAPERS. Tuar portion of the late Mr. Gurney’s memoirs which periodically
' appeared in this Magazine having been very favourably received by the
public, I have been induced to continue my search amongst his manu-
scripts in order to afford its readers some further information connected
with the annals of his family. 4 The concluding words of the final portion of his papers which has
been published are, “‘ We were MARRIED;”’ which words refer to his
union with Harriet, eldest daughter of the Reverend Richard Wells,
Rector of Blissfold in the county of Hants, After this event Mr. Gilbert
Gurney, as every man when he marries should do, turned over a new
leaf—in his common-place book; and I find a hiatus, “ valde deflen-
dus,’ of nearly two months in his memoranda. Love, I presume,
left him no leisure for literature, at least there is nothing discoverable
in the way of detail affecting either the celebration of the wedding, or
the subsequent excursion which fashionable delicacy appears to have
rendered indispensable upon such occasions ; and the first resumption of
his notes occurs on the first day of the year succeeding that in which he
became a Benedick, and thus he writes :— I begin a new year in a new character—I am now a married man.
“ Marriage,’ says Johnson, “ is the strictest tic of perpetual friendship,
aud there can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence
without integrity; and he must expect to be wretched who pays tu
beauty, riches, and politeness, that regard which only virtue and picty
can claim.’ Jvhnson was right. Cuthbert’s munificence has enabled me to establish myself in perfect
comfort. He has made one stipulation—he desires to make our house
his home; and when the young Falwassers, his wife’s children, have
their schvol vacations, they are also to pass theirChristmas and Midsum-
mer holidays here. ‘This is all right and pleasant—a combination not
very common in the affairs of this world. Cuthbert has an apartment
of two rooms, consisting of a study and bed-chamber, allotted to him,
which open to Harriet’s flower-garden on the south side of the house ;
for his long residence in India has rendered him extremely sensitive as
far as our capricious climate is concerned. Fanny Wells is staying with iny wife, to whom she was always an
affectionate sister; aud we are all as happy as we could wish, and
perhaps even happicr than we deserve to be. I feel myself snatched
from the follics and frivolities of an idle vagabond life, and placed by
Providence in a haven of securityewhere nothing but quictness and
comfort are to be found. ° There was certainly something remarkably odd in the way in which I
was inveigled into matrimony. M’y father-in-law’s conduct might, in
many other cases, have been attributed to interested motives, and his
eagerness to conclude a matrimonial treaty between his daughter and
myself, put to the account of his anxiety to get her off his hands, and
scttle her advantageously in the world; byt that cannot be thought or
imagined, the moment the smallness of my income is taken into con-
sideration. What startles me most, and most powerfully excites my